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your mom is loved
May 11 2007, 6:57 AM EDT
I feel for you ,and your family,but life takes us down paths we have never been.It seems you truly love your mom wich must be very comforting for her.My best thoughts are with you
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RE: your mom is loved
May 26 2007, 3:58 PM EDT
Hi there,
I just found out today my mum has a soft tissue sarcoma cancer in her leg. There is also a dark shape in the middle which may/may not be malignant. It is fast growing. They want to operate and begin radiotherapy in the next 6 weeks....sh'e reading up on all types of treatment, including alternative to try and decide what is the right thing for her to do.
I too feel lost,
I am so sorry to hear of your mother and what you are having to go through.
Of recent i have been seeing a councelor for other traumatic events in my life. Also a homeopath. Both of which are a huge huge support and i would recommend for anyone dealing with heavy emotional issues.
It is possible you(and i) are in a state of shock and trauma. Difficulties connecting with and 'feeling' our emotions, or a kind of 'numbness' to feeling can be signs of this. I had this once before in my teens(I am now 26) and eventually came out the other side, although the other side then had new dimensions to it......but such is life.
If you can create a safe enough space for yourself(perhaps with a support councelor) that would provide you with opportunities to explore and then express your feelings.
Lastly i would like to say be kind to yourself. Such life changing things take time to comprehend and adjust to and live with. You are coping with a lot right now.
i hope i didn't write too much here,
peace
Beccy
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RE: your mom is loved
Nov 12 2007, 10:46 PM EST
there are no words
I would hug you if I could but I can't. I wish I could, because then I could put all the words into a big ol' bear hug and hopefully help you feel better.
my mom went into remission a month or two ago and is getting a mastectomy on december fourth. she won't be doing any chemotherapy or radiation, but she's been there before and I'm sure she would be very sympathetic with your mother, and with you.
I know it's not easy having a parent who is sick, if you ever need to talk I can be here for you, my email is lostfan7@hotmail.com, my name is Rachel
please contact me and maybe we can talk about our moms and all the confusing things we're going through. I know what you mean about blocking up the emotions. I'm having a lot of anger issues recently because of what's happening.
god bless
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