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HKRA

HKRA		 My mom has cancer and i don't know what to do
Oct 3 2008, 3:08 PM EDT
Just a few days ago, my mom was sent into the hospital because she wasn't improving from the hepatitis a that she was supposed to have. however, it turned out that her bile duct was constricted because of a tumor in her pancreas. The doctors are not sure if it is malignant or not, but today, when they attempted to open up her passage way to free the duct and give her some temporary relief, they found another tumor, a big one, obstucting their path, and making them unable to complete the procedure. she's been moved to a hospital specialized for cancer. They don't know what kind it is yet, but she has the tumors in really bad places. I'm only 14 years old, and i'm so lost. I try not to think about this because it makes me sad, and then people in school want to know what's happening, and i can't tell them because i don't like to involve school with personal life. I also feel that i am in denial of the whole situation, that if i pretend that everything is okay, then the problem will go away. Every time i think about whats happening, i feel so lost inside. i don't know what to do. i'm usually really good at not caring, or just keeping calm when the time is right, but i feel like i'm self destructing inside, and that i STILL don't understand how serious the situation is. I don't want my mother to die. Do you find this valuable?    
pnorten462

pnorten462		 RE: My mom has cancer and i don't know what to do
Dec 6 2008, 5:48 AM EST
hI HKRA,
After reading your post very upset for you.But you don't be upset.I will pray for your mom health.Don't worry,be strong. Do you find this valuable?    
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