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Hi, my name is Karen. I am a “FOUR-TIME SURVIVOR OF CERVICAL, COLON, LIVER AND RECTAL CANCER”. I am writing this asking you to help me get my story out to the world, so that in return there will be millions of people who find Comfort, Healing and HOPE. I would love to share with you how I went from despair to joy.
Our bodies are miraculous! Mine has come through 14 different surgeries in just the last 14 years.
Walk with me as I share my journey through this incredible ordeal. It has taken a lot of personal development on my part to get me through the trauma. My story could possibly be your story. There are probably many things that we have in common, you just haven't written yours down yet.
At the age of 25, I was diagnosed with cervical cancer. At 32, I was diagnosed with a Vertebral Artery Dissection in the brain. In June of 2001, at 38, I was once again diagnosed with Cancer. This time of the Colon, I prayed for God to get me through this and once again he delivered me. He wasn’t finished with me yet, so in February 2002, at 39, I was diagnosed with Cancer of the Liver. I told God that I would bear the load if only I could touch one person. He allowed me to touch more than one; he has allowed me to touch thousands. Before going into surgery for the Cancer of the Liver, the doctors told me to get my affairs in order because I probably wouldn’t make it through this time. I told them that they weren’t God, and that he would decide when it was time for me to go. Little did I know that He had more in store for me. In June of 2003, at 40, I was diagnosed with Rectal Cancer.
In conclusion, I look forward to sharing my story with you in my book: One Woman’s Story: How I Survived Cervical, Colon, Liver and Rectal Cancer. Please feel free to visit my website at www.4xcancersurvivor.com.

In His Grip,
Karen
www.4xcancersurvivor.com
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fourxsurvivor@yahoo.com

Shared stories - CancerHi - my name is Jenny and I have survived Breast Cancer for over ten years now. I am thanking God every day for my life and what a wonderful life it is today. I really believe in the power of positive thinking and living a strong and healthy lifestyle. God is your creator and he gave you a head to use so use it for the good of you to benefit many others. That is my story and I am sticking to it. T
he following is an article I have written and would like to share with you. Please enjoy!


Essential Ingredients to GOOD HEALTH!
Love, Life & Laughter - Sounds wonderful doesn't it?
Have you ever really thought about the true meaning of each of these valuable words; in your words only; solely relating to you.
Let us exam "Love" first. I believe, and you would probably have to agree, you can't have Life and Laughter successfully without the most important "Love". To Love is to be Loved first. You know the saying "Love, love your brother, as much as you love yourself". Well it is true. If you don't LIKE who you are, which really is a stronger verb than LOVE then you really have less chance of liking or loving someone else very much at all. So how do we do this 'LOVE YOURSELF' or 'LIKE YOURSELF' thing successfully. First and foremost you must make sure the relationship you have with yourself is unconditional. Don't BEAT yourself up over small insignificant things. None of us are perfect - all of us have faults, just some more than others. We must learn to accept every aspect of "ME" (YOU) - every simple tiny detail. We don't necessarily have to like everything, as that allows room for a CHANGE - IMPROVEMENT even. That's a good thing; a Healthy Thing.
"Love doesn't erase the past, but it makes the future different." as quoted by Gary Chapman in THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES. Therefore be open to the fact that you will perform acts you utterly dislike about yourself and regret will be a major possibility, but if you recognise these acts and forgive yourself of them, then you will be able to move forward, thus making your future different. We must Learn from our Mistakes and make every mistake benefit our future. Don't waste mistakes with regret - prosper with excitement of a lesson learnt improving everything in your path for tomorrow. Life really is an amazing adventure and if we look at every moment of it with excitement, even in the tough times, we will succeed. So accept yourself unconditionally, love yourself unconditionally, & enjoy your life unconditionally. This brings me to the next point.
'LIFE' - Fun, Disaster, enjoyment, disappointment, laughter etc. etc. As different a life each one of us has from the other, we all experience many different angles to many different situations. How we deal with those completely satisfying or disastrous situations is the crucial point to the destiny of our "LIFE"!
A positive outlook on a negative situation can only make the unwanted, 'hard to deal with situation', much easier to resolve and walk through, not to mention, live through. A positive outlook on a positive situation can only enhance the outcome by 150% at least. Both situations end up with a much better 'MOVE FORWARD WITH A SMILE OF CONTENTMENT' outlook on Life.
Which leads me to the next paragraph "LAUGHTER". This, I believe, is the Cream on Top of the whole recipe to Good Health; the essential ingredient that sits up high oozing down through all the above, flavouring, sweetening and softening all to a totally, healthy blissful life!
Laughter is the medicine that makes a healing power totally possible. The old saying 'It takes more effort to Smile than to Frown' only enhances the fact that a wiser person is a happier person. If you have the energy and willpower to smile and laugh through the most difficult and life stretching moments, you have the very recipe for great wisdom, strength, positive ingenuity, and a total understanding of the meaning of LOVE, LIFE & LAUGHTER! This was my experience when I had Breast Cancer over ten years ago. The road was hard with many potholes, however LAUGHTER just lifted my spirits and made the light at the end of the tunnel glow beyond belief. It gave me so much HOPE.
Take all of the above and gulp it, swallow it and completely digest it into a healthy love and life stream, which will only result in complete satisfaction of your heart. Try the Special Recipe of Life - it really does work!


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This story is about a friend named Chuck Warman; I'm sharing this story we wrote because it needs to be told.

Chuck and Bonnie Warman

Chuck Warman: Winning the fight to live


Chuck Warman is not one to back down from a fight. As clean air activists in their hometown of Moscow, Ohio, Chuck’s wife Bonnie and he are no strangers to big challenges. So when Chuck was diagnosed with Hepatitis C, he was concerned, not afraid.

“I went upstairs and said a prayer,” says Chuck. “I counted my blessings and asked how I could be allowed to die now, and I was given the word that I was not going to die from this disease, period. I got up, and that’s been good enough for me.”

Chuck’s positive attitude, determination and the support of Bonnie and their three children – Jacob, Jessica, and Nathan – helped him face his disease. Chuck went into remission and remained healthy.

Seven years later during a routine procedure at Cincinnati’s Christ Hospital, Chuck was told he should see a hepatologist immediately – his Hepatitis C had returned. His hepatologist performed several tests before treating him. Suddenly, the family faced the biggest fight of their lives: Chuck had developed primary liver cancer, and it was inoperable.

“It was devastating,” says Bonnie.

Unfortunately, there was more bad news: only two types of treatments available held promise for saving Chuck’s life. If unsuccessful, he’d have just four to six months to live.

On his doctor’s advice, Chuck began a course of Radio Frequency Ablation (RFA). RFA sends high-frequency radio waves to tumors through a thin probe inserted into the body. Repeated RFA treatments can damage healthy tissues as well as cancerous ones, a problem Chuck encountered during his treatments.

Says Chuck, “They must’ve poked about 50 holes in me; they had to stop because I had so many lesions in my liver. If we’d kept going, my liver would’ve shut down.”

With RFA’s failure, it was recommended that he try an innovative cancer therapy called TheraSphere instead.

TheraSphere is a form of brachytherapy, a radiotherapy in which the source of radiation is delivered directly into the area being treated. Millions of tiny, radioactive glass beads, approximately 20 – 30 micrometers in diameter each (one micrometer is about the size of a talcum powder particle) are delivered to the tumor via a small catheter. By targeting only cancerous tissues, the beads destroy dangerous cells while minimizing the impact on healthy tissue.

Minimally invasive, brachytherapy reduces most severe side effects – nausea, vomiting and hair loss – associated with traditional treatments such as systemic chemotherapy. Patients are generally treated in an outpatient setting with local anesthesia, aren’t required to change their diet, and can resume normal activities as quickly as a day after treatment.

Despite his diagnosis, Chuck remained optimistic and took a proactive role in his healthcare. He spent precious hours giving himself a crash course on his condition, available therapies, and the TheraSphere treatment his hepatologist had recommended.

“He likes to get online and research everything, so for days, he was busy researching,” chuckles Bonnie. “We couldn’t get ten minutes with Chuck for three days because he had his nose buried in the computer.”

What Chuck learned online sounded promising.

“The majority of what I found was about people just like me – people who were told that their case was hopeless. But then they tried the beads, and the majority of them were able to get transplants. But even the ones that weren’t transplanted saw their quality of life get a lot better,” says Chuck.

Chuck realized TheraSphere was his best chance of survival, so he underwent the treatments as recommended. He became one of the first patients to receive TheraSphere at University Hospital, in Cincinnati and was the first patient there to have both lobes treated. Chuck recalls that first treatment with typical good humor.

“It was so new, there was stuff falling over. An equipment technician was in with me, saying, ‘I hope we don’t bother you’. It was like the TV show M*A*S*H*,” he laughs. “But it went very well. I felt well enough that I got up the next morning at 4:30 and went fishing all day with my stepfather.”

The treatments were successful and Chuck’s tumors shrunk to the point where he was eligible for transplant. The minimal side effects enabled him to continue working and remain active in the community. But the family received yet another shock: despite the positive effects of the brachytherapy, Chuck’s insurance carrier had changed their coverage policy, declaring further treatments medically unnecessary.

“They yanked the rug out from under me,” Chuck recalls.

“We knew this was his last shot, this was it,” adds Bonnie. “It made me mad. If you’re sending people to their deaths because of a buck, you should be held accountable. Someone has to stand up and say, ‘enough’.”

Chuck and Bonnie refused to accept the denial; instead, they educated themselves about their carrier’s policies and then, they fought back. The family telephoned their insurance company, wrote letters to its medical adjusters, and shared their story online. Meanwhile, Chuck’s doctors met with insurance company representatives to explain why his life depended on brachytherapy. His employer rallied behind him too, having their human resources managers barrage the carrier with calls demanding to know why coverage was denied. The couple also reached out to the media, telling their story publicly.

The family’s efforts paid off. Facing united opposition on every front, Chuck’s insurance carrier begrudgingly agreed to cover additional treatments. He finished the course of brachytherapy, with excellent results.

“My tumors are shrinking and my CAT scan shows no cancer outside the liver,” Chuck says. “Now, I’m eligible for a liver transplant.”

Chuck is teaching others to duplicate his success. He formed a monthly Hepatitis C support group and acts as a mentor to others facing similar situations. He also joined an email discussion group for people who have undergone or are considering the bead therapy for liver cancer.

The family recently celebrated Jacob’s marriage just before he shipped out to Iraq. Chuck and Bonnie remain very socially active and avidly tend their several-acre garden. Chuck’s return to the transplant eligibility list enabled him to receive a new liver at the University of Indiana. So far, all indications are that the transplant was a success. He is healthy and optimistic, and his outlook on life is positive, as always.

“I feel great. I’m going to live,” Chuck says with a smile.



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blondebomb017 my strength..my mother 6 Jan 31 2008, 7:52 PM EST by Anonymous
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I was 10 years old when my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer it was in a very late stage so they did an immediate mastomectomy. I remember very few things from when i was that old. I remeber her coming home from her first surgery and she couldnt get out of the car she was crying so much, she said i lost my woman hood. Watching my mother cry, the rock of our family is crushing even now. I did not understand to much then and I jsut thought "mommy was dying", i can't count the number of night i cried my self ot sleep. I had to tell my 5th grade teacher what was wrong becasue I would cry in class and I was afraid my mother would not be home when i got home.
I am 20 years old now and mother's cancer now has spread to her liver.lungs.ribs, spine. I missed my adolesence stage in life , I had to grow up and help take care of things becuase she was to sick. I feel even more helpless now when she cries. I CANT DO ANYTHIGN TO HELP HER! and it kills me, cuz i would do anythign to make her better, anything. She gets so depressed at times she tells says why me, I cant do this kemo any more take all these pills. It is so hard to watch her do all the treatments , test, get new medicines. I hope she knows I would be a mess if she died....i makes me so upset thinkign baout it..i love her so much...I cant tell her how i fell because i dont want her upset so i keep it to myself or write poetry but it doesnt seem to help me..
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f4xsurvivor FOUR TIME CANCER SURVIVOR 6 Jan 15 2008, 6:52 PM EST by Anonymous
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Hi, my name is Karen Shilling from Lenoir, NC. I am a “FOUR-TIME CANCER SURVIVOR OF CERVICAL, COLON, LIVER AND RECTAL CANCER”. I am writing this asking you to help me get my story out to the world, so that in return, there will be millions of people who find Comfort, Healing and HOPE. I would love to share with you how I went from despair to joy.
Walk with me as I share my journey through this incredible ordeal. It has taken a lot of personal development on my part to get me through the trauma. My story could possibly be your story. There are probably many things that we have in common, you just haven't written yours down yet.
At the age of 25, I was diagnosed with cervical cancer. In June of 2001, at 38, I was once again diagnosed with Cancer. This time of the Colon. In February 2002, at 39, I was diagnosed with Cancer of the Liver. In June of 2003, at 40, I was diagnosed with Rectal Cancer. They told me I would have a permanent colostomy and basically not much of a life.
There is something you can do to help. I guarantee that you will travel an emotional highway as you live through the experiences with me. You will laugh, you will cry, and you will rejoice with me as you find the answers that you have been searching for.
In conclusion, I just want to sing and share my testimony with the world. My prayer is that my book will be a blessing to you and your loved ones. It has been very healing for me to write. I look forward to sharing my whole story with you in my book: One Woman’s Story: How I Survived Cervical, Colon, Liver and Rectal Cancer. Or better yet, I would love to meet you in person, so that I can share my story with you. Please contact me for further questions, or feel free to visit my website @ www.4xcancersurvivor.com .
In His Grip,
Karen Renee' Shilling
www.4xcancersurvivor.com
fourxsurvivor@yahoo.com



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Anonymous breast cancer 2 Jan 14 2008, 12:54 AM EST by Anonymous
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When I was just 25 I was told I had uteran cancer, I was 4 months pregnant. The cancer was in the third stage, they wanted to abort my baby and I said no, after she is born than we will have surgery, I had to wait till my body had recovered from having her. I had a historectomy at the age of 25. At 40 years old I was told I had breast cancer. They kept chipping away and chipping away and finally had to do a mastectomy and they also took some limph nodes. This was during the holidays in 2002. I did not have to do chemo or take any meds I was so fortunate. After that I looked at life differently. My friend in Arkansas went and got tatts just spontanouis, ( probobly mispelled) anyway, you cant take life for granted. You have to be yourself and enjoy life, because you never know when someone you know or maybe your self will be diagnosed, I think it makes you alot closer with God, but there is always in the back of your mind that hopefully it wont come back each check-up. So far I have been cancer free for almost 5 years now. I will be ready too because I am having hot flashes from hell, I cant take hormones because my type of cancer grew on this. Keep your head up, because this does not make you any less of a woman.
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patj0402 A Love Affair with Cancer. 0 Sep 15 2007, 7:54 AM EDT by patj0402
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Cool story man. Naturally we all have unique stories to tell. Mine can be found via my website www.aloveaffairwithcancer.co.uk My attempt to give something back both by way of hope and inspiration, but also making donations from sales to cancer charities. Let me have your views.
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